When you’re expecting, your brain tends to go into the baby-only mode. Not only can you neglect to do things for yourself, but you may forget to do fun things with your partner. When you notice this happening, be sure to schedule some activities so you enjoy each other’s company and bond even more before the baby comes. You may want to do some of the things you did before you became pregnant but if you’re looking for other ideas, here are five.
Take in some non-baby-related content
You probably have scores of baby books on your shelf and a dozen pregnancy apps and podcasts downloaded on your phone. Since the app and sensor from Bloomlife can accurately time contractions, you’re probably tracking those on your phone as well. Take a break from all this and enjoy something else with your loved one. Read or listen to a murder mystery series, take in some comedy, watch the TV series you missed during your first trimester. Don’t let your pregnancy and baby planning take over everything.
Take a day trip
Just one day away from home can do wonders for your mood and relationship. Hop in the car and go to a town or two over. Enjoy an ongoing event, try a new restaurant or even visit that museum you’ve always wanted to. If you want to keep things ultra low-cost, pack a picnic basket with your favorites and head to a scenic spot to enjoy the day.
Make it a night out on the town
When was the last time you got dressed up? If it’s been a while, re-create one of the first date nights you had with your honey. Get your hair and nails done, wear something fabulous and remember what it was like when you first met. You may not go to the club but a nice dinner and some live music can be very romantic and enjoyable.
Go on a babymoon
If you and your partner have more time and money to spare, take a long time off and indulge in a relaxing vacation. Many couples continue to travel after they have children but if you think you’ll be staying put for a while, get some rest in a different city or county now. Book a hotel with a spa and well-appointed rooms so you can really indulge.
Host a dinner party
Do you see your friends with children less now than you did before? Soon you’ll also have less time for social activities as you get used to life with a baby. Get everyone together now and cook up a storm. You’ll get to enjoy some time with your friends and take a little time off from the baby planning.
A baby is a wonderful addition to your life. You and your partner will share in lots of new experiences and grow together with your little one. But before the baby comes, take some time to focus on your relationship as a couple. Use these ideas to help you plan your activities.
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