I'm not a morning person by any means. I'm more like the grumpy, frumpy housewife with her hair all matted and standing on end, standing in a stained up bathrobe, sipping coffee, with a kid hanging off my leg. If that doesn't paint a pretty mental image. Mornings hurt. After being up twenty-eight times in the middle of the night taking care of feedings, diaper changes, cuddles, nightmares, and spit-up, I just don't feel like being a "rise and shine" kind of person. Really, I just want to ignore the cries and tantrums and go back to sleep.
But parenting doesn't work like that. Instead, I've found a way to cope with early mornings. Routine.
Because the kids are in daycare now, they've gotten into the habit of getting up right at (or before) my alarm. That cuts down on the fight to get them up, so at least there's that. No tears in the morning really help me keep my calm. I try to pick out their clothes the night before, that way getting them dressed isn't too much of a hassle.
The two year old usually starts to get impatient right about this time, because he wants to go to "playcare":
Now, we don't have to start walking out the door until 7:30, and it's usually right about 7 when the little guy starts telling us it's time to go. Easy solution: find something to keep him occupied while I finish getting everything ready for the day. How do you keep a two year old entertained? Blocks, chalk, or one of sissy's toys. If those ideas don't work, I usually bring him into the kitchen with me so he can be my "helper." This is when I get the baby's bottles ready for daycare, grab them each an extra outfit for that "just in case" assurance, and then make sure Daddy is up and getting ready for work. The seven year old's backpack gets checked to make sure she has her library book, her homework, and a snack. Then coats are put on, shoes are tied, and we walk out the door.
What is your morning routine?
In a month and a half, I will have a 3 year old, a 22 month old, and a newborn. I am very nervous and I have no idea how this is all going to work. I know there will be an adjustment period but I feel like things are going to be crazy. Sometimes crazy is good...but it can get difficult when you are already exhausted (I think I have been exhausted for over 3 years now and I know it is going to get worse). But we will get through it!! A schedule will be made and they will get older and things will get easier. At least that is what I tell myself!
ReplyDeleteErin K. (erinknack08@yahoo.com)