I Can't Complain

You know, it isn't often that I’m able to sit back and reflect on life.  Tonight, both kids fell asleep early so I was able to just relax and think for a while, and the verdict is – I've got it pretty good.

I have two beautiful children, I am pursuing an education toward a career that I am passionate about, my fiance and I have a great relationship, and we have everything that we need. 

I know I may complain at times about being tired – but my kids are well taken care of.

I may complain about all the housework – but I have a home that I love being in.

I may complain about not having time to cook – but we eat well.

The truth is: I have no reason to complain at all.  There are so many less fortunate than my family.  We aren’t living in luxury; we’re actually below poverty as far as money goes.  But we have what we need, and that is all that matters. 

There are times that I have stood in the line at a food bank to ensure that we had enough food to last through the week.  There are times when we've has to count change for diapers.  Even through that – we still have what we need. 

Will we have a big Christmas?  Probably not.  But we will still celebrate.  Same goes for Sammy’s birthday, which is two days after Christmas.   There will be a party to commemorate him turning three, but I can’t promise lavish gifts. 

We have what we need.  Our kids have food – even if it isn't what they may want to eat.  They have clean clothes without holes or stains – even if they were bought from a thrift store.  They might not have the latest gadgets or toys- but they have a roof over their heads, running water, warmth when it’s cold, and a clean house.

Most importantly, they have love.  We don’t fight, argue, or yell.  We try our hardest to be good examples to our little ones.  We teach them, hold their hands, and rock them to sleep.  Through the boo-boos, nightmares, tummy aches, and hurt feelings – we give them the love that only a parent can.  We’re rewarded with sweet hugs, kisses, snuggles, and trust – more precious than the finest jewels.

Next time you’re having a bad day, spend a few minutes to reflect on your life.  Perhaps it isn’t so bad after all.